Post-anal sex — what about the ejaculate?
Dear Alice, My fiance and I frequently enjoy anal sex. We no longer use condoms with each other during vaginal sex or anal sex. He enjoys ejaculating in me during anal sex and I don't mind it....
View ArticleDoin' the butt — objects in anus?
Dear Alice: I recently posted the question about the finger in the anus. I'd first of all like to thank you for your answer. It was, as usual, helpful. I think this web site is fantastic and...
View ArticleDesiring anal sex — what does it mean?
Dear Alice, I am a well-adjusted late twenties male with a steady girlfriend. Lately, I have been increasingly fantasizing about various types of anal penetration. I have discovered that during...
View ArticleAnal sex and waste products
Dear Alice, If a man is performing anal sex, can he actually feel his partner's waste products? Please answer because I read somewhere that the proper thing to do is perform an enema first and I can't...
View ArticleNot all gay men have anal sex
Dear Alice, I just found your site after reading an article in the May issue of Men's Health. I read many of your previous Q&As, especially those regarding homosexuality. I am gay and found your...
View ArticleAnal stimulation ain't just for gay men
Dear Alice, I am a twenty-year-old male and consider myself to be heterosexual. The problem is, I have a very strong desire for anal pleasure. When I was fifteen, I discovered that inserting a finger...
View ArticleThe male hot spot — Massaging the prostate
Dear Alice,I have a question that I don't think you have addressed before (hope it's not too kinky). I am interested in learning the technique for doing a prostate massage. My partner enjoys being...
View ArticleHemorrhoids and anal sex — Okay?
Dear Alice, I want to know if you are able to have anal sex when you have hemorrhoids, and if there is a way that it will only hurt as much as it does to have sex that way without them. And if so, how...
View ArticlePain from anal sex, and how to prevent it
Alice,After having anal sex with my partner, I noticed blood on him, although there was no sign of external damage. The next day I am feeling pain internally, but I can't pinpoint its location. What...
View ArticleNumbing lube safe for anal sex?
Dear Alice,Is numbing anal lube safe to use? It’s the only way I feel relaxed... I've always been too nervous to relax if we try to have anal without it.
View ArticleCrohn's disease and anal sex
Dear Alice,I have been diagnosed with Crohn's disease and am a gay man. Is it harmful to have anal sex under normal circumstances?Thanks
View ArticleIn remission from Crohn’s — anal sex okay?
Dear Alice, I have had Crohn's disease for 16 years and am in remission right now. Recently my boyfriend and I have been toying with the idea of anal sex, but I'm concerned about it given my health...
View ArticleWater in anus during anal sex
Dear Alice, The guy I have been seeing likes to use a water bottle and administer the water (to the point it is "overflowing") into my anus prior to anal sex. This is NOT like an enema, as he likes to...
View ArticleAnal protrusion after anal sex
Dear Alice, Here is my situation: My b/f and I had anal sex, and this was not the first time we've done it. But this time was different. After we were done I noticed there was something that kind of...
View ArticleFingers... and other items in the bum — Safe?
(1) Alice,Is it safe for a man to insert fingers in his rectum? 'Cause I heard anal fisting can tear the anal wall and can be dangerous... But is finger anal stimulation dangerous as well?Ann Sermee :)...
View ArticleGay, but afraid to say it
Dear Alice,I am gay, but I am afraid of saying it. Until now I haven't had sexual intercourse with other men but I am looking forward to it each time I masturbate. What can I do?— Nonintercourse
View ArticlePossibilities for the penis: What else is there besides ''in and out''?
Dear Alice,I keep reading that it's not the size of the penis that counts, but what he does with it. Other than the "in and out," what is there? This is not meant to be a cheesy question. Thanks!
View ArticleDesiring anal sex — what does it mean?
Dear Alice, I am a well-adjusted late twenties male with a steady girlfriend. Lately, I have been increasingly fantasizing about various types of anal penetration. I have discovered that during...
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